Children often learn best through demonstrations, and so you can bring your explanations to life by actually showing the child what you mean. Or, you can use something that makes it easier for your child to actually see what it is you're talking about. For example, if you explain to your child that there will be two different homes, it can be helpful to actually take him or her and show the new homes where your child will be sleeping, playing, eating, and so on.

Wives need to understand that sex is the number one need of their husbands. The word of God strictly warns married couples of the dangers of depriving one another of sex (1 Cor 7:5). There are moments when either of the two are not in the mood, (chances are it will be the woman). However, time and effort should be made to ensure that sex is an active part of your marriage (1 Cor 7:3).

It is not impossible to have friends and acquaintances of the opposite sex when you get married, and it works out a lot better if they are married too. I might add the fewer of them, the better. If friends of the same sex can cause problems in a marriage, friends of the opposite sex escalate the problems to a whole other level. These relationships should be handled with caution and care, and the extent of them should be limited.

Why does the love between Black couples have to be in question? Do the stigmas of the past cause some to believe that Black love is not valid because once upon a time in our country Black marriages were denied? Or since most Black families are run by single parents, some have forgotten that Blacks and marriage can be used in the same sentence?